by Shaman Chad
That’s right, your shaman bro is here to help you get your freak on. I am Shaman Chad after all, and anyone who’s tripped or smoked a blunt knows psychedelics and sex go together like…drugs and rock n’ roll. So here’s a few tips if you’re thinking of dipping your toes into non-monogamy.
DO
communicate openly and honestly with your partner(s). You’re gonna have to get comfortable talking about and owning your fEeLiNgS. Tread softly, pressuring your partner is a sure way to fuck up your threeway fantasies. Always remember, shame kills love. Own your kinks and let others have theirs.
DON’T
try non-monogamy to fix your relationship. This should be a no-brainer. It’s like suggesting that maybe having a kid will fix things. The relationship is already doomed.
DO
respect boundaries and specifically ask about them. Learn some of the lingo like soft swap, same room only, and compersion. Genuinely ask, “I want to respect your guys’ relationship, what are your boundaries?” –This single phrase is like a magic door for single dudes, thank me later.
DON’T
try any stupid sneaky shit. Don’t go behind your partner’s back or even consider trying to steal someone else’s partner. If you’re going behind someone’s back it’s not swinging or polyamory, it’s cheating, even if the people involved are non-monogamous.
DO
check in with your partners often. Before, during, and after your trysts. Once again, especially if you’re a guy. One of the things women fear most is how you’re going to react if she changes her mind. Tame your boner.
DON’T
take shit personally. Laugh if you’re too nervous to get it up, or if you bust sooner than the other guy. Don’t try this if you can’t stand the thought of some Chad with a bigger dick fucking your girlfriend better than you can. Or if you’re jealous of that younger girl with perkier tits fucking your man. Ideally these things should be exciting for you. Sex is something but it isn’t everything. Non-monagamy isn’t for everyone and sometimes fantasies are best left inside your dirty little mind.
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